Leadership Authenticity

5 Steps to Becoming A More Authentic Leader

A Simplified Approach

There are many opinions about what defines good leadership. A central tenant of these ideas focuses on authenticity and the need to thine own self be true. Typically, authentic leaders are uniquely genuine and share qualities that beget trust, take ownership for their failures or mistakes, and display a raw courage that affords them the natural ability to ask powerful questions at the right time. 

 Studies show that most employees believe that authenticity is the number one requirement for a leader. That’s no surprise considering that authenticity lets team members know what you’re expecting from them. Being authentic can also bring a level of personal connection essential to building trust and developing decent working relationships.

 Authenticity is important because it affords people an ability to link the purpose or why behind leadership and effective outcomes. Connecting a person’s unique combination of characteristics, traits, skills, and style to his experiences creates a foundation ripe for ownership and courage. 

Much of what makes a leader authentic are the things that come naturally. Otherwise, it wouldn’t be authentic, would it? However, some key factors can help enhance your authenticity and increase team effectiveness. 

 #1 - Always ask for feedback

 Feedback comes first. Self-examination of both strengths and weakness is the only way to authenticity. And, as a leader, you may find that employee feedback is the only way to get to the bottom of these things. By continuing to harness positive feedback, you can remain authentic to the things you do well. But, by also facing up to opportunistic comments, you can address weaknesses and overcome them in an authentic way. 

 #2 - Accept that no leader is an island

 Once you know your opportunities, it’s time to accept that no leader is an island. Admitting that you don’t have the tools you need to overcome these weaknesses on your own is vital. Otherwise, you may mistakenly adapt to cover these gaps in a way which isn’t true to you. Make sure that isn’t the case by getting help to implement authentic methods. A good tool for solutioning this would be to engage in leadership or executive coaching--both can help you raise awareness and develop authentic solutions. Equally, delegating the tasks you aren’t skilled in could help you to stay true while also meeting the needs of your team. 

#3 - Understand your values

 Values matter a lot to authenticity. These ensure you can develop a reliable and robust set of standards for your team. They can provide direction, as well as, ensuring that all-important authenticity in everything you do. Leadership coaching and self-reflection can help you realize your values. And, once you know what matters to you, you can apply it to everything you do. Then, whatever you do, be sure not to compromise those values with the management decisions you make. 

 #4 - Admit to your mistakes

 Authentic leaders must ALWAYS own mistakes and opportunities. Too often, managers either shift the blame or outright deny it if they do something wrong or mess-up. That’s because there’s a misguided assumption that holding your hands up is a sign of weakness. But, that’s not the case. Authenticity is, after all, about being human. And, humans occasionally make errors. Instead of shifting blame or outright denying things, it’s vital to leadership development you fess up and own your opportunities. This will garner much more respect from your team than any denial ever could. It also shows that you’re an authentic person who isn’t afraid to admit that you don’t know everything. 

 #5 - Be open and share your story

 That leads me to my last point, which is to be open and share your story. Like when we deny our mistakes, refusal to speak to our teams on a personal level compromises authenticity. How can your team know you’re being authentic, if they don’t know you? By sharing your story with team members, you can develop relationships for a whole new level of authenticity. Whether you tell them your life story, share your learnings, or outline your career journey, opening up can forge connections. And, connections are vital to fostering the collective array of perspectives, values, and principles necessary to navigate the complexities of a rapidly changing world.

Coaching Questions that Raise Awareness and Lead to Greater Authenticity

 1.    What am I good at doing?

2.    What feedback am I failing to action?

3.    What work outcomes make me the proudest?

4.    What am I learning that will help me or my team?

5.    If I could design the perfect job, what would it look like?

 Coach Chad | www.legacyleadership.coach | chad.blando@legacyleadership.coach

Leading With Humility

Humility

Leadership’s Missing Ingredient Brings New Perspective

When you hear the word leader, most of us conjure-up images of famous people who are strong, confident, and outgoing. You need to be sure of yourself to achieve success in business, but there is a lot to be said for being a humble leader. The most engaging and inspiring voices are not always the loudest.  Therefore, leadership humility, may be the untapped characteristic of true leadership effectiveness.

What is meant by leadership humility?

Leadership humility carries an increasing amount of weight now. Historically, tales have focused on imposing leaders who were strong and brave, but also arrogant and selfish. Humility means being aware of your own faults and flaws and seeing yourself as an equal, rather than somebody who is better than others. When it comes to leading, you need someone with conviction and confidence at the helm, but a business can also benefit from having a leader who is aware both of his own shortcomings and the strengths and virtues of others. 

The benefits of being a humble leader

There are several benefits to being a humble leader. The most significant examples include:

• Listening to others and acknowledging their ideas, abilities, and strengths: you can’t run a business on your own, and encouraging your team to progress, develop, and learn will benefit everyone. 

• Teamwork and collaboration: competition can push people to achieve their best, but there’s a fine line between healthy competition and creating contests that contribute to a lack of cohesion. 

• Integrity and credibility: being a good leader isn’t about boasting and showing off. It’s about setting a good example and inspiring others to accomplish their own goals. 

• Morale: when you lead a group, morale is everything. A humble leader will appreciate every person in the team, giving them the reassurance, confidence, and motivation to work towards targets. 

• Relatability: when you’re humble, you become more human and more relatable. If you’re a boss who makes time to listen and isn’t boastful or arrogant, employees will quickly warm to you and ultimately have more respect for you. 

Tips for practicing leadership humility

Being a good leader isn’t always about being the loudest voice in the room and laying down the law. Often, it’s about finding the right balance between strength and authority and humility and compassion. Here are tips to practice leadership humility:

• Be prepared to muck in: getting involved in the day-to-day running of the business and being prepared to get stuck in and help out occasionally will give you an insight into your employees’ daily life, at the same time as showing them that you’re willing to do your bit for the cause. 

• Know your own limitations: often, we’re quick to point out other people's shortfalls when it comes to managing a team of people, but it’s hugely valuable to know your own flaws and limitations. 

• Be willing to learn: every day is a learning experience, and even if you’re a successful leader, there’s always room for improvement. 

• Ask yourself these questions to help raise your awareness of leadership humility.

1. What part of yourself are you holding on rather than freely giving to others?

2. What relationships could you selflessly invest tomorrow?

3. Which beliefs and attitudes are you refusing to test?

4. Where are you stopping short?

5. What are you prepared to learn, invest, risk, and sacrifice?

6. How are you leveraging your talents to support the success of others?

When you think of a leader, you often imagine an incredibly powerful figure, but humility can be an amazingly potent weapon in the world of business.  Leaders who exhibit high levels of leadership humility are able to forge strong relationships with peers and direct reports, appreciate the contributions of others over their own, and listen and digest feedback so it promotes growth and creates a culture rooted in openness, transparency, and authenticity.

 Coach Chad | www.legacyleadership.coach | chad.blando@legacyleadership.coach